you can download the video from the link below
http://jarisflvplayer.org/
or exactly from the link
http://sourceforge.net/projects/jaris/files/Jaris%20FLV%20Player/Version%202.0/JarisFLVPlayer-v2.0.15b.zip/download
this control is working independently(simply it can be working by using content editor web-pat), and then by using the content query web-part or data-list view, you can embed this control with the indeed design.
Salam
Ahmad Hindash
